When I
was in college, my parents let me bring my friend Mike on a ski trip we took to
Colorado. One night we all went to this
restaurant at the top of a mountain. It
was really cool because you had to take a gondola to get there. The restaurant was set up like an old time
lodge with wood beams and a fire place.
But this wasn’t just any fireplace; it was enormous. It had to be 12 feet tall and 6 feet
wide. The fire was awesome and
frightening at the same time. That’s a lot
like our sexual desires.
Fire,
like sexuality, is awesome, but can also be consuming. I’m so glad we have fire! But if it’s not managed it can destroy things
like the wildfires in Colorado this past summer. When it’s in your house you need to have a
fire place. When it comes to sexuality
you need to manage it well. There are
three areas that need management: 1. Your personal sexual feelings and thoughts, 2. Your sexual feelings about other people, and 3. Your interaction with the opposite
sex (whether acquaintances, friends, or a boy/girlfriend). I’ll try to hit some of these in upcoming posts.
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