I was disappointed.
This movie had the potential of having something meaningful to say. I recognize that any meaningful story that
takes place in real life will be filled with “objectionable content.” That’s true of Romeo and Juliet from the 1490s to Adam Sandler’s Click from 2006.
But like so many movies targeted to you guys in your teens, instead of
going for the heart of the film, they work so hard to make it raunchy that it
loses itself.
At the movie’s heart was a girl who found herself in a weird position to
help outcasts. Her first rumor, that she
lost her virginity to a college guy, was offhandedly started by her in order to
impress her friend. From there, since
she has gained a ‘bad girl’ reputation, more guys ask her to lie for them to
get them out of situations or to help them not be ostracized.
As crude as it all is, the beauty of it is that Olive has a sweet heart and
feels for these guys, enough to drag her reputation through the mud for their
sake. Jesus, quite honestly, did the
same thing. He got accused of a lot of
things and got labeled by a lot of popular people because he fraternized with
the unpopular crowd (including so-called ‘skanks’ by the way).
The most powerful moment of the film comes when a guy honestly asks her out
on a date. She finally feels truly cared
for instead of being used. Then, at the
end of their date he offers to pay her, not to lie, but to actually sleep with
him. He begins to physically take
advantage of her before she finally pushes him away in disgust.
This was such a poignant moment. I
was like, “Yes! Finally!” Here was a girl finding out that selling her
body out to guys who just wanted to take advantage of her wasn’t worth it. She has true dignity and worth and she doesn’t
‘deserve’ to be used. The amount of
girls that are sexually abused in some way is 1 in 4. That’s a terrible reality.
But, instead of driving home this point, the rest of the plot devolves into
the silly escapades of a guidance counselor who has a fling with a student who
happens to be in a ‘Christian’ group, the weirdness of Olive’s parents’ past,
and, on and on.
So, what does this mean for us as believers? Well, there are inequalities. Notice that the guys in the film get better
reputations because of their (false) exploits, while Olive’s reputation goes
down the drain. Both of these are
problems. As believers, we want to
develop a healthy sexuality between the sexes where our attractions are honed
into ways to honor the opposite sex, for guys to recognize women’s differences
by treating them with both equality and extra kindness and gentleness, and for
girls to honor guys by giving their affections to men who are worthy of it.
Olive seems to kind of get this at the end.
She finds that sexuality, at its best is romance, not just sex. Yet, so much of the movie shows what most of
us already know: that our sexuality is often used as a means of blackmailing,
using, pressuring, and abusing. God has
given us a gift. Let’s not let it get
dragged through the mud like that.
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