To celebrate Presidents' Day, let me introduce you to a US president that I knew nothing about until recently. His nickname was "Silent Cal." Check out this president who did things dramatically different from any of our recent commanders in chief.
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Friday, February 17, 2017
Monday, May 16, 2016
The Most Important Question About Abortion
I've not done any posts that I can recall about the subject of abortion, but after I saw this 5 minute video, I couldn't help but post it. It's not intended to pull heartstrings. It's simply a rational argument on whether or not abortion can be considered a moral action.
Friday, September 11, 2015
Should America Be the World's Policeman?
Today is Patriot Day. I honestly didn't know that. I saw it on my planner. So, I looked it up and discovered that Patriot Day is a day of remembrance for the over 2000 people who died as a result of the Islamic, Jihadist attacks on September 11th, 2001.
I remember that for a short while after these attacks, our country rallied together and truly believed we had a duty to defend, not only ourselves, but also to intentionally protect and foster freedom around the globe. What other country in history has done this?
Of course, it didn't take long before people started saying again, "The US shouldn't be the world's policeman"
In this video, Pulitzer Prize winner Bret Stephens argues the opposite. In true Patriot spirit, he believes that there is a very, very good reason for the US to be the "world's policeman."
I remember that for a short while after these attacks, our country rallied together and truly believed we had a duty to defend, not only ourselves, but also to intentionally protect and foster freedom around the globe. What other country in history has done this?
Of course, it didn't take long before people started saying again, "The US shouldn't be the world's policeman"
In this video, Pulitzer Prize winner Bret Stephens argues the opposite. In true Patriot spirit, he believes that there is a very, very good reason for the US to be the "world's policeman."
Friday, September 6, 2013
Miley Cyrus in Church
By now most of you have heard about the whole Miley Cyrus
routine at the VMA awards. Reactions
have been everywhere from shocked to disgusted.
Miley, once the iconic wholesome girl whose poster graced many a tween
bedroom wall, now has become the dart board for our moral outrage.
Here’s what concerned me more. Recently we visited some friends out of state
and went to church with them. In the
bulletin I saw an announcement for a women’s group. In the description of the group’s focus it
stated that they wanted to work against our culture’s vision of women as
“strident, selfish, sexual, and independent” and teach women to replace this
with a biblical view of womanhood.
Now here’s the kicker: “sexual.” That’s bad, right? This is the insidious lie that gets injected
into our systems as Christian teens from well-meaning people. When listing sins, sex and sexual are thrown
in without a thought. So, not only do we
feel that routines like Cyrus’ are dirty, but the fact that we kind of enjoyed
it also makes us feel dirty.
But I recently saw something much more destructive. In fact, it’s insidious, meaning that it
slowly enters into our systems without us knowing. And…I saw it at a church.
Let’s be honest. Are
we really that shocked at the former Hannah Montana’s routine? Brittney Spears did the same mouseketeer-to-racy
singer routine before her. It’s almost
like a tried-and-true formula for kid stars if they want to make it big after
puberty. Sad, yes. Surprising, no.
Here’s what concerned me more. Recently we visited some friends out of state
and went to church with them. In the
bulletin I saw an announcement for a women’s group. In the description of the group’s focus it
stated that they wanted to work against our culture’s vision of women as
“strident, selfish, sexual, and independent” and teach women to replace this
with a biblical view of womanhood.
My first thought: “strident?
Isn’t that a brand of gum?” I
looked it up. It means something like
loud or boisterous. Apparently, that’s
bad. Sorry for you extroverts.
“Selfish”? Ok, I get
that one.
Now here’s the kicker: “sexual.” That’s bad, right? This is the insidious lie that gets injected
into our systems as Christian teens from well-meaning people. When listing sins, sex and sexual are thrown
in without a thought. So, not only do we
feel that routines like Cyrus’ are dirty, but the fact that we kind of enjoyed
it also makes us feel dirty.
According to the description of this women’s group they were
going to discover the true biblical view of womanhood which is non-sexual. Huh?
We do ourselves no favors when we shame our sexuality.
Most of us, especially when sexuality is new to your life as
a pre-teen and teen, already feel so awkward about it. Then our Christian environments proceed to
shame us for those feelings.
The Bible is an incredibly sensuous book that, if depicted
exactly in film would garner a higher rating than R. The Song of Solomon is just one example of
God’s delight in the beauty of romantic love and its sexual expression.
Like all the greatest things in life, sex can bless, but
also harm. So, yes, God has guidelines
for healthy sexual expression. But
beating ourselves up for our sexual nature and criticizing Miley Cyrus do very
little to help us discover this.
At our core, we have desires…and God delights in us at our
core. Believing in that delight has done
more to help me follow him than any wagging fingers ever have.
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